Opinions of Other | A Stoic’s Guide to Not Giving a Fuck

The opinions of others is the one thing that we have the least control over in our lives. We can only influence them through passing conversations or through rumors we spread about ourselves by our words and actions. Yet, many men today seem to be greatly disturbed by the endless struggle to try and control the opinions of other people. The one, most important, thing that the Stoic philosophy teaches us is that we should only worry about the things which are in our control, these wise words echo through the ages from the mouths of the wisest sages who walked this Earth to the ears of the modern man who is trying to find a way to be the best man he can be. This great Stoic advice, which in my opinion could be the only advice one ever needs to adopt in order to live a good life, directly goes against the notion that we as men should worry about the opinions of other. As I've said, this thing is so far out of our sphere of control that spending any time at all thinking about this issue leads to nothing but misery and burn-out.

Live For the Thrill of the Fight, Enjoy the Daily Struggle

f we few who are dedicated to being the best men we can be really wanted to live up to the greatness of our forefather, we must learn to embrace the struggle and go not only a step, but a mile beyond where every other man falls from exhaustion. The effort that we put into our work doesn't always pay itself back. But the very act of putting so much effort into the daily struggle of our lives, into our work, our hobbies and even our thoughts creates from as better man who can endure more without being broken, and so plants in ourselves the seeds of success, those being good discipline, motivation, mindset and work ethic.

Benefits of Being Alone | A Stoic’s Guide to Loneliness

When a man spends time with himself, he comes to know and appreciate himself more. When meeting a new acquaintance, we often undervalue them because we know so little about them, once we sit one-to-one with that person, and we get to know them a little better, their true value and virtue is revealed to us, and they might even become so dear to us that we may call them friends, thus this also happens to ourselves, the less time we spend alone with our own self and our own thoughts, the less we value ourselves, and by spending time alone we get to know ourselves better and to see and judge our own virtues and sins to our own standards, thus we become more dear to ourselves and our own inner-self becomes our friend.

Be Aggressive | Why Men Should’t Avoid Conflict

It's the primary trait of an alpha male to take what he wants without asking, it's the only way one can get the things one desires, be it status, wealth or respect, nobody is going to give it to you if you don't take it yourself, if you don't demand it, and these 'men' would rather die hungry then fight for a piece of bread. I used to be one of them, I too was born and grew up during the time of soft men, the peaceful and comfortable time in which men don't learn the traits needed to survive in this world. But though hard work on improving myself, both mentally and physically, by working to overcome my fears and challenge my enemies, I learned to embrace conflict, and by doing so grow both as a man and as a person. The answer to the mediocrity that is killing this society is to always strive for greatness and virtue, no matter the amount of conflict you as a man need to engage in, for you were created to be the predator of attrition, the one who takes the blows and deals them back twice as hard.

Periodic Productivity |Know When to Push and When to Rest

Being productive is very important in order to succeed in the modern times. You're either a highly productive, driven and over-competent alpha male, or you are shit that doesn't fulfill his evolutionary role of becoming the best alpha man he can be. But in order to be productive and highly efficient, you need to know when to be productive, and when to take your time to collect your thoughts, rest and make plans, it you will suffer terrible burnout, because being an alpha male is very hard and being productive will drain your energy fast.

The Minimalist Mindset

All in all, going to any extreme of having or not having isn't going to bring you any happiness or fulfillment in life, but I sure think every man who is trying to become the best alpha man he can be needs to adopt at least the key aspects of the minimalist mindset, clutter in your life transforms to clutter in your mind which blocks you from growing and reaching your full potential as a man. Try the minimalist experiment for at least three days, and see how this lifestyle works for you, it might open your mind for new perspectives, or at least create a better and clearer living space in your day-to-day life.