When a man spends time with himself, he comes to know and appreciate himself more. When meeting a new acquaintance, we often undervalue them because we know so little about them, once we sit one-to-one with that person, and we get to know them a little better, their true value and virtue is revealed to us, and they might even become so dear to us that we may call them friends, thus this also happens to ourselves, the less time we spend alone with our own self and our own thoughts, the less we value ourselves, and by spending time alone we get to know ourselves better and to see and judge our own virtues and sins to our own standards, thus we become more dear to ourselves and our own inner-self becomes our friend.
In a man's life there are going to be a variety of discontent, malevolent, provocateur-type people who will want to put a man down, go stand in his way and if they cannot stop him he will then be a nuisance that will unapologetically try to put him off of his purpose, all of these varieties of people can be put under a single category, they are assholes. You, as a man trying to be the best man you can be, trying to reach that elusive status of the Primus, of the Alpha, you will have to deal with these assholes on the daily bases, for if you don't they will attack you and destroy everything you are trying to build for yourself, meaning your confidence, you self esteem-live, your posture, your ideals of masculinity. They are an enemy, and they have to be dealt with ruthlessly the same way a good warrior eliminates a threat.
Being productive is very important in order to succeed in the modern times. You're either a highly productive, driven and over-competent alpha male, or you are shit that doesn't fulfill his evolutionary role of becoming the best alpha man he can be. But in order to be productive and highly efficient, you need to know when to be productive, and when to take your time to collect your thoughts, rest and make plans, it you will suffer terrible burnout, because being an alpha male is very hard and being productive will drain your energy fast.
Throughout history, as well as in modern times, us men were expected to fulfill our evolutionary role as providers and protectors. As any other species cannot help but become extinct if they do not comply with the strict laws of mother nature, we too had to fight our way from the African savanna to the … Continue reading Importance of Taking Time Off